Hi Elias. Sorry you’re dealing with something similar.
For me it is a constant 24/7 urge to urinate. Sometimes a very strong urge, so intense that I can hardly function and other times very mild. However it’s never normal.
After 25 years as you can imagine I’ve tried a hell of a lot. There is no doubt that my hip flexors and psoas and back are all super tight. I can feel the pelvic floor muscles spasm when I relax lying down and sometimes when doing stretching.
For me there is some obvious connection with nervous system and lack of sleep and stress and an intensity / flare up in the symptoms that can last days.
For those just beginning to deal with this and who have been declared “perfectly healthy” by the urologists, I would go straight into DCT stretching program, some form of relaxation or meditation and perhaps the David Wise approach with the internal trigger point release.
I’ve done it all, but perhaps I came at it after too many years of dysfunction to quickly reverse the symptoms. I believe if I knew if these techniques in the first few months after symptoms started, that I would have been able to reverse it.
Now there is an added element of anxiety that obviously makes the symptoms worse. But I think it’s party of a vicious cycle - symptoms flare up and I become anxious as to how bad it will be or how long it will last. If I’m anywhere social, well at this point in my life I make up an excuse and just leave.
After so long and so many medications tried, I can say that the only think that helps me:
- General reduction of severity of symptoms: Lorazepam/ diazepam
- Sleep (which allows me to reset and break a flare): Clonazepam and Remeron
- Very occasionally my doc prescribes OxyContin super low dose (like 5mg) which can help to break a flare.
- Super hot baths followed by lying still also helps with immediate reduction of symptoms for as long as i don’t stand up and walk around.
It’s difficult because so many people don’t see the real me. Yes I’d like to fly there and do that, but no I don’t want to deal with a pounding urinary sensation the whole time. The few people I have told simply don’t understand because I look healthier than your average person and I am not in obvious agony.